Wednesday, January 11, 2006

Our Story

It was in New York City, dead-of-winter 2005, when we—Amanda, Jen and Holly—found ourselves in the midst of a collective quarter life crisis. Sure, 20-something burnout may sound a tad to silly to anyone born before the advent of MTV, Atari or Guess jeans, but long workweeks at stress-driven offices had taken their toll. Despite having creative gigs that fueled our passions, we were frustrated that we'd let our careers become our identities. We were starving for real connections with family, friends and significant others—who wants to date a woman already married to her job?

It turns out, we weren't alone. Like millions of young women in our generation, we were plagued with doubts about the paths we were choosing. Though intense workdays left us little time for contemplation, we often found ourselves asking: What exactly were we doing with our lives? Could we ultimately commit to one career, city and lifestyle (and man), when so many opportunities lie before us? On our own, with no parents, advisers or a syllabus to guide us, you could say that we were a little, well, Lost. Okay, very Lost. So before making the ultimate choice of which way to go as (gulp) adults, we decided to take a major detour, one we hoped might provide a little insight into these questions and just maybe, a road- map to our futures.

Kissing our jobs, boyfriends, apartments, families and our beloved Manhattan goodbye, we officially became "The Lost Girls," and started making plans for a yearlong, 35,000-mile journey around the globe. Loosely building an itinerary that begins in South America and crawls eastward through Africa, the Middle East, India, Southeast Asia and Australia, we plan to explore the cultures, mindsets and lifestyles of our international counterparts, getting to know thousands of strangers so we may better know ourselves.

We have no idea what the next year will hold—or where the future will lead us—but we can't wait to start the journey. The Lost Girls' trip kicks off on June 20, 2006. We hope that you'll stick with us every step of the way.



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12 Comments:

Anonymous Jaime said...

HI HOLLY...this is cousin Jaime. Good luck on your adventure...I can't wait to see all of your pictures and stories of your travels. You go Corbett! love and cheer...Jaime

5:00 PM

 
Blogger Mallika said...

This is pretty amazing. I'm glad I stumbled upon your blog -- I'll be reading and commenting along on your adventures.

Oh, and if you should want to stop by Thailand, I might be able to help out with information and such. I'm Thai and, other than a six-year childhood stint in the USA, have lived there all my life.

Right now I'm living in Spain, so if you ever decide to trot into the country I'd be happy to ask my (Spanish) husband and his parents for great inside tips. They're quite the travelers. :)

7:29 AM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi girls, you have been schnozed. Check out the review :).

10:18 AM

 
Anonymous kristarella said...

Wow! I was just blogging the other week about my doubts and worries and that I thought I was having some kind of early-life crisis. Someone commented calling it a quarter-life crisis. You're right it's totally common and I really like the way you decided to combat it, or even just delay the decisions that set your life course by seeking the wisdom somewhere around the world to make those decisions.
I don't think my husband would want me to take the same approach as you girls. I hope you find some knowledge and joy and wisdom in your travels!

9:23 PM

 
Blogger BNY said...

I am so excited that I came across this blog! We did the same thing, but with opposite destinations. At 25, I wondered where my life was going in North Carolina - and I decided that my answers were in New York City.

11:52 PM

 
Blogger Ethan Zara said...

Hi Girls, I love your page! When the trip is over, will life be ever the same? I mean, not being on the move anymore?

Wish you the best!

-Ethan
Backpacking on Little Money

7:57 PM

 
Blogger leavesbehind said...

First of all, toasts to you all. Second of all, won't you answer that little riddle of how it is that yall were able to afford this adventure? You don't need to tell me details about your personal finances, but I would just really appreciate getting a clue about how to do it.

12:53 PM

 
Blogger Leeborg said...

What an adventure! Where are you ladies now? I'm sure you girls are having endless fun exploring. As for me, I have covered most of the interesting (to me) spots here in the Philippines. Now Im trying to cover places abroad. It's a big world, still a heck lot of places to cover. Kudos to you three for being able to drop everything and just go. =)

2:18 AM

 
Blogger Sam said...

like awesome!! well frankly... approaching mid-twenties and already 2 yrs into teh corporate world.. i too feel teh urge to break away from the monotonicity that palgues our lives.... dunno, whether i'd break away like you did.. but yeah wud do something abt it soon.. to save my sanity!!
cheerio....

4:50 AM

 
Blogger elysa said...

I have subscribed to your blog for about a month now. I have been enjoying your stories. I wanted to invite you to join the Twenty Something Bloggers blog ring that was recently started. I wrote about it yesterday on my blog. Twenty Something Bloggers

I also recommended you guys as a travel blog poppytalk was looking for travel bloggers

6:38 PM

 
Anonymous RennyBA said...

What a wonderful idea and I will go and check your travel story.

From your rout description, I could tell you didn't go to Europe? Well, your welcome over if you like to explore Norway and the Nordic countries:-)

5:58 AM

 
Blogger Ashter said...

I am currently on my own adventure in Europe and a friend suggested I check out your blog and article on starting a travel blog. I wanted to comment since you girls have such a great story and had lots of great tips! I too spent days on slow computers blogging away. Thankfully much of it was free since I stayed with family during part of my trip; but they were always making fun of me for being on the computer so much. Blogging starts to feel like your job -- only a really fun job you love doing!

I was in the same NYC media boat and actually lived there during the snowstorm in this pic! That almost looks like my street!

I am finishing up my two months in Europe and have been keeping up my own travel blog www.ashterstravels.blogspot.com It's been great and it's fun to see so many people with similar stories. I'll probably be back in NYC someday too; but I don't think it will happen just yet... :) The world is my playground!

All the best! Cheers to being lost abroad!
Ashley

6:14 PM

 

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